Badhayain aati hain aayain.....

 

In the midst of failure, one always tries to appropriate it with something or with someone. The aura to stand alone in such circumstance wither away and people try to ask one though simple but extremely valuable question to one’s life “why me why its just me” who is facing these problem. But if one shows a deeper understanding then every human is facing problems depending upon the threshold he has created for himself.

The logical solution is a 3 step though from outer core it seems very vague but deep down they are extremely valuable.

1.   Why apparent view of the difficulty is perceived as a problem not a challenge?

2.   Even if it is perceived as a problem, then why in hell one consider it does not have a solution? Mind it, every problem has “some” solutions.

3.   Consider one thing straight, if you are not living with difficulties then face it, you are living a very predictable life. Which is not a “life of reason” , which Aristotle ask to each and every individual.

Actually the notion is based on perception and perceptibility, which is in a way the factor of socialization through which you have gone through. One thing which can be stated over here is “ sona tap k kundan tabhi banta hai jab wo jalta hai”. So if you are trying to exalt your persona and trying to place yourself in public space, then surely it requires sacrifice. And if it does not require sacrifice then surely it is not a success. The definition of success is not just crossing the required threshold but to discover in how many ways that threshold can not be crossed and in how many ways it could be crossed, this give much more maturity to grapple the next success and also gives perseverance through which one could find ones “life with reason”.

Here Atal Bihari Vajpayee is worth mentioning

“kuch katon se sajjit Jeevan ,

Prakhar pyar se vanchit youvan,

Neeravta se mukhrit madhuban,

Parhit arpit apna tanman,

Is Jeevan ko shat shat ahutiyon me jalna hoga galna hoga,

Kadam badhakar chalna hoga,

Kadam milakar chalna hoga”

“badhayeen aati hain aayain ,

Ghire parlay ki ghor ghatayain ,

Pawon k neeche angare,

Sarpar barse yadi jwalayain,

Nij hanthon se haste hanste aag lagakar chalna hoga,

Kadam badhakar chalna hoga,

Kadam mila kar chalna hoga.”

If one have taken the task through which one can impact the lives of thousand , lakhs ,then surely one or two failure does not matter because finally who is going to get benefit out of it. Least of all, what is more important  is that with high level of capacity one could give a tough competition and in that too, the best would do more good to the society. So ultimately one should not get demoralize out of it.

One more substantiation would be:

how many stars are there in this world?

Ans.10^22.

In that there is just one earth, and out of 7.5 billion human, there is just one “you. “. So does it matter to get a failure. But here what is more imp. Is to have a course correction, a mindset to fight , a mindset to rightly appropriate a challenging/ evolving personality.

What is more imp. Is that one is standing again and again to beat the time, to beat the situation,to beat the failure.

Success is just to creat that mindset.  And ultimately failure is just an illusion.